During this season of
gratitude, I'm thankful for three things that are as essential to a book as air
is to a living thing. First, I'm grateful that not one, but two publishers
believed in my work enough to accept it for publication. It's getting
increasingly harder for new voices to be heard (or in my case an older voice
that took a decade off to raise her children...), but Booktrope and The Wild
Rose Press both took a chance on this unknown author. Booktrope published my
novel, Goddess of Suburbia, after I
received more rejections than I care to count. My writing was never the reason
for the rejection – in fact one editor even sought me out at an event to thank
me for giving her the opportunity to read my work. She loved the writing, but
it just didn't fit with what she was acquiring at the moment. That was a common
refrain. Goddess of Suburbia was not
an easily categorized book. But that didn't matter to Booktrope - all they saw
was writing they believed in and gave it a chance.
In
contrast, The Wild Rose Press was the first and only publisher to which I
submitted my short stories, A New Life
and You & Me (coming out in
February 2016). While You & Me
was a response to a call for submissions and I signed a contract not long after
it was written, it was not a quick road from creation to publication for A New Life. After writing it in an
incredible workshop, A New Life sat
in a file on my computer (or rather a few different computers – as I evolved
from mammoth desktop to netbook to large laptop) for fifteen years before I
finally sent it off into the world. I had written it before e-books and during
a time when short stories in magazines became shorter and shorter – or
sometimes disappeared altogether. Knowing it would finally be read by someone
other than my amazing writing teachers, Jill McCorkle and Elizabeth Cox and my
fellow workshop members was an indescribably incredible feeling.
Which
brings me to the next thing I’m thankful for… my readers. Without readers, a
writer may as well just be yelling into the wind, so to speak. My words on the
page mean nothing, if no one is reading them. I’m so incredibly grateful for
all of the readers who have been touched by my work. I’ve been told by readers
that my words make them laugh out loud and even cry (especially my essays). I’ve
read many reviews that have left me thinking, Wow – this reader just gets it. That is the best feeling. I love
connecting with readers and I’m always so appreciative when a reader reaches
out to me to let me know how much he or she enjoys my work. There is simply nothing
more satisfying as an author.
And finally – I’m
grateful that I took a chance on myself when my youngest son started
kindergarten. I was determined to get back the career I had left behind when I
had children. I gave myself a deadline – if I didn’t get something published by
the time my son graduated kindergarten, I would get a real job. At that point, writing still felt more like a hobby than
a career, even though it was the only thing I’d ever done and the only thing
I’d ever wanted to do. And then… a month before my son graduated kindergarten –
and twelve years after my last published article – my essay, Kicking Superwoman to the Curb, was
published in Long Island Parents Magazine.
That was all I needed to convince me that writing is indeed my real job and not
just a hobby. It’s my career – and one that I’m forever grateful to have…
Suburbia
meets scandal in this hopeful and honest portrayal of that moment in every
woman’s life when it's time to make a change, even if that means risking losing
it all. Goddess of Suburbia by Stephanie Kepke is a must-read for women looking
to reconnect with their passions, and live authentically.
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When
pillar of the community and PTA mom, Max, allowed her husband, Nick, to record
a sex video of them on his cell phone, she thought of it as simply a way to
keep Nick interested and entertained during his frequent business trips. But
suddenly, Max is trending everywhere—her video lighting up the blogosphere and
Twitter, thanks to the fact that she’s a genuine, imperfect woman. Now the
paparazzi are chronicling her every move; her daughter wants to disown her; and
her marriage has completely fallen apart. Just as things can't get any more
chaotic, Max's college boyfriend, shows up two decades after he broke her
heart. Now Max must learn to stop going through the motions of her life on
auto-pilot and start living authentically, or risk forever being a suburban
lemming running towards the cliff of old age.
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Does
a baby turn your life upside down or right side up? New parents, Grace and
Zach, find themselves drifting apart after months of no sleep and no sex, not
to mention too many fights over the dishes, laundry and in-laws. Sometimes it
seems as if they'll never find their way back together. Is the love they still
feel for each other beneath the layers of frustration and unhappiness enough to
reignite their forgotten passion?
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Bio:
An award winning writer and blogger, Stephanie's second grade teacher told her she should be a writer and she hasn't wavered in her path since. In her past life - before kids - Stephanie was an arts reporter and music journalist. She spent her twenties listening to loud rock bands (including her drummer husband's) in bars all around Boston and New England. Stephanie lives in New York on Long Island with her husband, three boys and two slightly crazy rescue dogs (one of whom is three-legged). Stephanie lives right in between the Atlantic Ocean and the Long Island Sound – and loves to have her toes in the sand.
Welcome to the blog, Stephanie, and back to the writing world. I'm finding, myself, that the life of a writing mom, is not always easy, but it's worth it.
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